Helping Your Child Settle Smoothly Back into Nursery After a Break
The return to nursery after a holiday can be a big moment — for both children and parents. Add to that the possibility of a room move or preparing for school, and it can feel like a whirlwind of emotions. Whether your little one is returning to the same room after a break or transitioning to a new stage, the key is supporting them through the change with calm, consistency, and connection.
Here are some practical tips to help make that transition smooth and positive for everyone involved.
1. Start Talking About Nursery Before the Return
A few days before their return, start chatting with your child about nursery. Remind them of the fun things they did, the friends they played with, and the familiar routines like snack time or story corner. This gentle reminder helps build anticipation and ease anxiety.
If they’re transitioning to a new room or even preparing for school, introduce the idea positively:
“You’ll be with the big kids soon! That means new toys, new stories, and new adventures.”
2. Keep Routines Familiar
Holidays often mean relaxed routines — later bedtimes, longer screen time, and different meals. Try to reintroduce nursery routines gradually in the days leading up to the return. A consistent sleep and wake-up schedule makes mornings less rushed and helps your child feel more settled.
3. Visit or Walk Past the Nursery
If possible, take a short walk to the nursery before their official return. Point out their classroom or talk about who they might see inside. A visual reminder helps them feel grounded and reminds them that nursery is still a safe and familiar place.
If they’re moving rooms, see if your nursery offers transition visits or “stay and play” sessions in the new room. Even a few minutes in the new space can go a long way.
4. Acknowledge Emotions — Theirs and Yours
Transitions are emotional. It’s okay if your child feels unsure or even upset. Instead of trying to “fix” it right away, acknowledge how they feel.
“It’s okay to feel nervous about going back. I get nervous when things change too.”
Your own emotions matter too. Children pick up on how we feel, so try to stay calm and positive even if you’re a little anxious about the change.
5. Use Stories and Role Play
There are some lovely children’s books about going back to school or moving up. Reading them together can open up conversations. Role-playing with dolls or action figures can also help your child express their thoughts and prepare for the change.
6. Let Them Bring a Comfort Item
Whether it’s a small toy, a family photo, or a special item, having something familiar with them can offer comfort in those first few days back. Just be sure it’s something that can stay in their bag or a pocket if needed.
7. Stay in Touch with the Nursery Team
Your child’s educators are your best partners in managing transitions. Let them know if your child has been feeling a bit anxious, or if there’s anything you’re doing at home to support the process. The more consistent the support between home and nursery, the better your child will adapt.
In Summary
Whether it’s coming back from a holiday or preparing for a new room or school, change is a big deal for little people. With some preparation, patience, and lots of reassurance, your child will soon be settled, smiling, and ready for their next adventure.
And remember — you’ve got this.
